• General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction,  Relationships

    People Come, People Go

    I have often wondered why so many people come and go in our lives.  Or why we leave the lives of certain people. I understand that certain circumstances warrant the “loss” such as unhealthy relationships, career choices, moving, death, etc., but there is also another reason.  A reason that many people may not be aware of. It was just recently I became aware, on a much deeper level of understanding, why the people in our lives change so much or don’t.  You see, when we make a decision to change ourselves or change parts of our lives, our vibration changes.  We are no longer living within the same vibrational frequency…

  • General,  Happiness,  Relationships

    Dead End Relationships

    Relationships are about positive growth. Not just within ourselves but within the other person as well.  It is natural for change to occur whether we want it to or not.  As we grow, make new or different choices, implement change within ourselves, take a different path, or stay idle where we are, there will be an effect on our relationships, all of them.  If these changes and choices cannot be embraced by the support and love of those in your life, your relationships may come to a dead-end.  A dead-end relationship is one that does not have the potential to move forward in a direction that you so desire. The…

  • Appreciation,  General,  Happiness,  Relationships

    Improve Your Relationships – Agree to Disagree

    How often do you find yourself in an intense argument over a disagreement?  Too often, relationships tear apart due to disagreements.  Why do we feel the NEED to be right?  If someone does not agree with you why give them the cold shoulder?  Is it really worth it?  Does it make you feel good?  Wouldn’t it be easier to agree to disagree; to allow one another to have their OWN thoughts and opinions on any given subject?  Isn’t this what makes each one of us unique? Can you imagine a world that was full of exactly the same person, or a world where everyone agreed on the same thing?  How boring would that be? …

  • Appreciation,  Depression,  General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction,  Relationships

    Diminishing the Problem Monster

    Is there a problem you are facing today?  One that makes you feel overwhelmed, stressed out, full of anxiety, sad or unhappy?  Does it feel as though it is bigger than you?  In a sense it is because you are allowing yourself to see it that way.  You have expanded the size of it in your mind into this great big huge monster just waiting to take you down.  It is as though you are looking at it through a magnifying glass believing it is just too much to handle.  Simply speaking, you are allowing this problem, which in fact lives in your outer life control you by blocking you…

  • General,  Happiness,  Relationships

    The Freedom of Forgiveness

    Forgiveness is not about the other person. Forgiveness is about freeing OURSELVES from the pain, anger, resentment and negativity we hold against someone else so WE can move forward.  I believe the reason it is so difficult to find forgiveness is because we believe saying “I forgive you” means the same as saying “what you did was okay”.  However, this is not the case.  Forgiveness is not about saying what was done was “OK”; it is about offering a deep understanding toward the other person.  If someone does something that necessitates forgiveness it is because their actions are coming from a place of pain, anger or discontent within themselves and has absolutely nothing…