What Has Waiting Done For You

353How much of your life have you spent waiting? I am not talking about outer life waiting such as waiting to graduate, waiting to buy a house, waiting in a line, or in traffic.  I am talking about waiting to fully embrace your Inner Life which will bring you peace, well-being, abundance and true happiness.

Your Inner Life is the core of who you really are, the non-physical part of your true being.  It is the center of all that is and all that will ever be. It is the pure and true “one with” connection to Source.

Your Inner Life is always alive, happy and joyful because it is in and of the present moment.  It knows nothing different.  It never needs to wait to feel good because feeling good is its natural state of being. Which means, feeling good is your natural state of being.

The Teachings of Abraham – Abraham Hicks Publications

Ask and It Is Given – Learning to Manifest Your Desires – Abraham Hicks

354When you project yourself into the future or anywhere other than where you are Now, it creates inner conflict. This conflict causes you to be out of tune with your Inner Life.  This is the same as being out of balance.  This imbalance will deplete you of positive energy because let’s face it, if you are not happy Now, you are going to emanate negative energy. This negative energy will in fact impact every area of your life ~ body, mind & spirit.

Waiting for anything takes the joy out of where and who you are now. In turn, it takes the joy out of life.  When you are focused on trying to find something or someone to make you feel good, you completely lose sight of the present moment.  

351Waiting is no different from saying I am not happy Now, I want something better.  Why do we wait for something specific before we allow ourselves to be happy?  If you are happy Now, everything you want will come into play and before you know it all good things will be manifesting for you.  You are the creator of your own reality. The better you feel, the happier you will be.  The happier you are, the easier it is to create the life you want because you are then in tune with your Inner Life.

The Power of Now – Eckhart Tolle

The New Earth – Eckhart Tolle

Stillness Speaks – Eckhart Tolle

If the present moment is not good enough Now, how do you expect the future to be any better when you carry forward the feelings of “not good enough”?  The present moment is where all of Life is.  It is where your dreams and desires are created and born.  Waiting is where life will crumble and die.  

346If abundance and true happiness is what you desire, you will only find it in the present moment.  You will not find it by waiting for the next best thing to come along.  Waiting will only attract more waiting.

Life is Now.  You are Now.  Be here now and the rest will fall into place.  There is no need to wait for anything or anyone.  Everything you need is inside you.  It is a part of who you are. Your natural state of being is love and happiness so there is nothing to seek out.  All you have to do is get back in tune with who you really are; with your Inner Life.

348Acceptance of, and appreciation for, where you are, who you are, and what you have will put you back in tune.  This in itself will eliminate the need to wait because you will begin to feel and have peace, well-being, abundance and true happiness.  So I ask you this one question ~ what has waiting done for you?

Love & Light,

Cynthia K Ortiz, Inner Life Guidance Coach

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Turn Your Problems Into Opportunities

17When you turn a situation, an experience, into a problem you not only create stress and anxiety but you also create pain.  The question is not about the situation, but why we choose to turn it into a problem.   Problems are self created because we believe things that do not make us feel good are problems.  But are they really?

08Yes, a problem is a difficult situation, matter or person.  However, why not give difficult situations a different meaning?  Why not turn the light of positivity on it and look at it as a growth opportunity.  An opportunity you could very well use as a stepping stone toward that which you do want.  The more you discover what it is you do not want, the closer you get to having what you do want.  You can’t have one without the other.  You have to know what you don’t want, to know what you do want.

18The thing about this, is that until you have suffered enough, more than likely you won’t make the choice to look at situations differently. In fact, you may not even want to because when you move into a more settled and peaceful state of mind, it may feel uncomfortable to you because you are not used to it.  However, look at it this way – don’t you deserve to feel better?  To be happy?  Of course you do, so what are you waiting for?  Aren’t you tired of waiting?

09Problems do not survive in the present moment.  They are never here Now.  They are always in the future so why make them a part of your life NOW?  Why allow one simple word to completely take you over, creating a false sense of who you are?

Whenever you are faced with what you consider to be a problem, change the word problem to the word opportunity….try it on for size and see how it feels.  Instead of saying I have a problem, start saying I have an opportunity.  Your co-worker is not a problem, he/she is an opportunity.  Perhaps an opportunity to teach someone what you know.  Your life is not full of problems, it is full of opportunities.  The dis-ease you feel in your body is not a problem, it is an opportunity for you to relax and/or become more aware of what your body is trying to tell you.

124When you really think about it, a problem is a chosen word attached to a situation.  And more than likely it is a word you were taught to use.   Why are we being taught to be negative?

Problem = Negative Energy

Opportunity = Positive Energy

119As with any situation you can either deal with it now to get it out of the way, leave it alone if it is something out of your control, or just accept it as it is, as part of your journey. You are the one with the power to either allow it to escalate or subside.  The choice is yours ~ problem or OPPORTUNITY?

Love & Light,

Cynthia K Ortiz, Inner Life Guidance Coach

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What Are Your Beliefs Creating?

41Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it.  Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many.  Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books. Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders.  Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations.  But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, than accept it and live up to it. – Buddhist Teachings

Has it ever crossed your mind that the life you are living is because of your own personal beliefs?  Have you wondered why you lack self-esteem?  How many times have you stopped yourself from doing something because you did not believe you could do it?  Do you find yourself falling in line with everyone else’s beliefs instead of living in line with your own?  The beliefs we hold about ourselves and about life will be a major factor in how our lives unfold.  Whatever you believe will be true because you believe it.  A belief is only a thought that you keep thinking.  If you want to change your life, change your beliefs.

04From the moment we are born, we are taught the beliefs of other people through our parents, schoolteachers, and/or religious leaders.  We also carry beliefs about ourselves from the words that are offered to us from other people.  If you were told by someone you trust and love that you are stupid, you are more than likely going to carry that belief about yourself throughout your life.  Unfortunately, a belief that causes negative emotion will create a negative response from us.  We will feel insecure and lack confidence.  It is not until that belief is replaced with a positive one that we will be able to overcome the negative feelings.

If your beliefs cause you to think that this is a terrible world we live in, full of violence and destruction, the power of the words you offer through your belief will generate the same kind of life.  Regardless of whether or not you like what you believe, you will constantly be creating an unending cycle of unwanted manifestations.

A belief is a series of words that will elicit a negative or positive manifestation.  A word is not just a sound or written symbol.  Words are powerful because when spoken, written, or thought, they create an emotion.  It is the energy of your emotion that will create the events in your life.  When you think you are stupid, you are going to feel a negative emotion.  That negative emotion will send out a vibration that attracts more things that will feed your feeling of being stupid.  Our words can be used as a very powerful tool to getting what we want.  However, the word does have two sides.  Words can create a peaceful, healthy, and abundant life, or words can create constant havoc and chaos.  Which would you prefer?

02Think of your words and your beliefs as magic potions.  They will give you freedom and peace of mind or they will imprison you in hell.  One word, one belief, which is said and/or offered, can change a person’s life forever.  The most dramatic example I can give of this is of Hitler.  It was through his word and beliefs that created one of the most unforgettable acts of violence and cruelty that humanity ever experienced.

We must remember that it is not only the words that are said to us that can change our lives, but it is also the words that are said by us that can change our lives and the lives of others.  If you hold the belief that you are stupid, you may offer the same words to someone else in an effort to make yourself feel better.  Not only do you continue to carry negative emotion, but now someone else will too.  However, everyone has a choice as to whether or not to believe what is being said.

PotionThe easiest way to know what is “true” is by how you feel when words or beliefs are offered to you.  If you are told you are stupid and it causes sadness, anger, or pain, then you know you are not in alignment with who you really are.  If you watch the violence and destruction around the world and it makes you uncomfortable, sad, or angered, you know you are taking on a belief that is not true to who you really are.  Who you really are, your “inner-being” is pure positive energy, and it offers nothing but unconditional love.  If everyone in the world would take his or her focus off the violence and destruction, it would be gone.  It is because of the vibration we keep offering that keeps creating the negative manifestations in our lives and in our worlds.

Whenever you believe something that does not make you feel good, all you have to do is change your belief.  How do you change your belief?  You change the words you are offering.  Instead of thinking or saying, “I am stupid” say “I am grateful for all my knowledge.”  Instead of thinking or saying, “this world is a horrible place to live” say, “I am grateful for all the beauty in this world.”  Then focus on the positive aspects of your new belief!  Draw on your own strengths and remind yourself of all the things you did that made you feel smart.  Get on the internet and look through photographs, read articles about all the beautiful and peaceful places around the world.  Take a walk in your own neighborhood and instead of looking at what you do not like, look at what you do like.  Find gratitude in the fact that you are alive and breathing, that you are a part of this wonderful world that we live in.  We may not be able to change the world, or what was said, but we can ALWAYS change our beliefs!

Once you get in the habit of changing negative beliefs and words to positive ones, there will be a shift in your vibration and your life will begin to become more joyous, fulfilling, and abundant!

Love & Light,



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