• General,  Happiness,  Relationships

    The True Way of Forgiveness

    Although I would prefer to live a life completely filled with joy, happiness and peace, we all know it is nearly impossible.  We all know there will be life experiences that hurt us, make us angry, take us to our knees, or leave us completely torn and breathless.  Some of the most difficult experiences come from our relationships and learning forgiveness.  Just recently, a very wonderful and wise man in my life reminded me of the true way of forgiveness. When a life experience calls for forgiveness, more than likely we have made it quite clear what this person did to hurt US.  More than likely we spoke without love,…

  • Appreciation,  Depression,  General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction,  Relationships

    Be the Change that YOU Desire!

    If you have a desire for change, you can start right from where you are. There is no need to go backwards to get to where you want to be. If you know what you want half the battle is over. The past is the past and it no longer exists, so don’t let it exist within you. Whatever it is you want to change or do different, just do it. Do not sit around beating yourself up over what you have done wrong or what you could have done differently. This will only keep you from moving forward. Every moment you have is an opportunity to be who YOU…

  • Depression,  General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction

    Letters of Love – Take the Time

    When was the last time you hand wrote a love letter to someone? I am not talking about an email, text message, or an array of Emoji’s. Don’t just say “I love you”, but write it ~ write letters of love to those you love and appreciate. Think of all the reasons why you love someone and tell them.  Write it from your heart, from where the love began and continues to grow.  It’s only natural to become irritated or frustrated with those we spend a lot of time with.  It’s only natural to not always feel the love you once felt.  As time goes on there is a tendency to…

  • Appreciation,  Depression,  General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction,  Relationships

    All Is Well – One With Your Inner Life

    All is well.  Do not fret or worry for the Universe is working with you, not against you. Relax in the calmness you so willingly seek within. You are one with who you really are ~ God, the Universe, your Inner Life. Your energy flows eagerly outward embracing all that you are and all that you desire. Your dreams are right there.  I know you can feel them….can you feel them? Now, close your eyes and just breathe. Breathe in all that you deserve ~ breathe in abundance, joy, happiness, hope, faith and love. And now, breathe out what is not truly a part of who you really are. Breathe…

  • Depression,  General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction

    Happiness or Unhappiness – It’s YOUR Choice

    A happy life starts with you, just as an unhappy life starts with you ~ no one else, just you.  You are the one who controls how you feel about anything and everything, which in turn controls how life is going to feel to you.  Let’s say you are having a bad day.  From the moment your feet hit the floor nothing seems to go the way you want it to.  You are faced with one unwanted situation after another and before you know it you are caught up in a tunnel of frustration, irritation, stress, anxiety, negativity and maybe even anger.  If you keep living and re-living where you…

  • General,  Happiness,  Relationships

    Love Is To the Soul…

    Love is to the soul like water is to a flower.  Some say the soul is the same as the inner-being (Inner Life) and some say they are different.  I believe they are the same.  The soul, inner-being, inner-child, inner-self, Inner Life, spirit, etc. is the eternal greater part of who we are.  I believe that if we are in tune with, in touch with, or even aware of the greater part of who we really are, a true and deep love with another is always possible.  It is when we attach our love to the outside world, to our outer life, that it is lost.  When you love from…

  • Depression,  General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction,  Relationships

    Be Consumed By Your Inner Life

    One of the biggest set backs we can give ourselves is allowing our outer life control our Inner Life.  Your Inner Life is the core of who you really are.  It is where nothing can break you and all that matters can be found.  It is where you are protected, safe, loved and one with Source. When we are faced with a broken relationship, financial or business challenges, the death of a loved one, disease, etc. we have a tendency to fall into its evil trap of worry, stress, anxiety, pain and depression.  We allow ourselves to be consumed and sucked up in what is happening to us instead of…

  • General,  Happiness,  Relationships

    Knowing Your Worth – Moving On

    When you know your worth, and you are worthy, the hurtful words and actions of others go through you instead of knocking you down.  For me, they filter through my Inner Life and become purified into love.  Love toward the one who is still suffering.  The one’s who suffer are the ones who hurt us the most.  They say they love us and yet at the same time they aim their spears at us.  Spears filled with THEIR inner pain masked as hurtful words and actions.  When the pain of the past begins to stir within them it is easier to avoid what they don’t want to feel so they…

  • Depression,  General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction,  Relationships

    It’s Not Life Not Giving You What You Want, It’s You

    How are things going for you?  Is your life right where you want it to be or are you in a battle against it?  It’s okay to be where you are regardless of whether or not it is where you want to be.  It may not be the greatest place in the world, but it is a place.  A place you can be unhappy and miserable about or a place you can transform into something happy and fulfilling.  I know this because I have been there.  Maybe not the exact same circumstances, but I have certainly had my share of less than colorful life experiences, all of which I am…

  • Appreciation,  General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction,  Relationships

    You Define You, Not the Past

    Some say the negative experiences of our past define who we are, but I am not sure if I believe this.  I am who I am because I choose to be.  Giving your past all the credit gives it power.  It holds you in a place that doesn’t always allow you to move forward.  It keeps you living in fear because you don’t ever want to go back to “those days” so you live in the confines of what you think will keep you safe from the past.  While at the same time you are also keeping yourself away from what life truly has to offer you. Yes, there are…