The Gift of Self-Love XOXO

135The love of self is not only vital to your well-being but it is powerful in your life’s creations. Everything starts with you ~ with your Inner Life ~ your Inner Life IS you and it is pure unconditional Love. You are the creator of your own reality.  When you create from Love ~ your Inner Life, what do you think the outcome will be?  The outcome will be everything you ever dreamed of ~ true happiness, a healthy body & mind, financial success, overflowing abundance and much more!

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There are too many people who suffer from the lack of self-love. They live unhealthy and unhappy lives because somewhere along the line they came to believe they were not worthy of the life they really wanted.  Regardless of where the lack of self-love originated from, everyone deserves their heart’s desires. Everyone deserves to love themselves, to give love, and to receive love.

Do you really believe you chose to come into this physical experience to endure any type of emotional pain and live without love?  No, you did not.  None of us did. With this in mind, would you not want everything to start from a place of love?  

137I know it is our natural instinct to want to go back to the past to try to figure out how we came to believe we were unworthy, but it truly is not necessary.  Going back does not change anything.  All it does is create more pain and suffering because you are not living in the here and now.  

Nothing needs to be understood in order to move forward and love yourself.  All that matters is how you want to feel, what you want to create, and how you want the rest of your life to unfold.  Once you get back in tune with your Inner Life you will easily begin to move into a place of true, unconditional love.  It will be then, that the suffering will end.

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Loving one’s self is not always easy, for there may be years upon years of negative beliefs built up inside you, but don’t let that stop you.  You are worth the effort.  Once you experience even the slightest difference in how you feel, you are going to want more and more love and before you know it, your life will change in every way possible.  You will feel and be healthier and happier. You will find appreciation for who you are and experience the joys of what life really has to offer.

When you love yourself unconditionally you make yourself your number one priority. You nurture and care for yourself as you would a newborn.  You give to yourself the things YOU need.  The things that will make you feel good and make you happy.  You are kind, gentle, and loving to yourself.  When you make a mistake, you find compassion and forgive yourself. You laugh and have fun.  You care for your body and mind, only ingesting what is good for you. You accept and love yourself for exactly who you once were, who you are today, and who you are becoming.  

136Choosing ME Before WE: Every Woman’s Guide to Life and Love by Christine Arylo

Love yourself enough to be who you really want to be.  Follow your own heart.  Do what inspires you, delights you, and enlightens you.  Be bright, light and full of shine.  

Surround yourself with the people who make you feel alive and add to your experience, not take away from it.  And remember…the only opinion of yourself that matters is your own.  You do NOT need anyone else’s opinion. You are pure perfection.  You were created THROUGH LOVE and so YOU ARE LOVE.  This can NEVER be taken away from you.  It is a part of who you really are!  You ARE and will ALWAYS be LOVE and LOVED – completely, wholly and unconditionally!

Give yourself The Gift of Self-Love today! XOXO

Love & Light,

Cynthia K Ortiz, Inner Life Guidance Coach

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Life Is Inside You

43Life is inside you but you spend so much time looking outside yourself, you don’t even know it exists.  It is an unshakable feeling of peace and well-being; an unshakable feeling of calm.  No matter what is going on you will never lose yourself when you are connected to Life.  The Life inside you is who you truly are.  It is the foundation for all abundance.  It is where your dreams and desires are born.  It is where you will find true unconditional love not only for yourself but for everyone around you.

When you live your life from the outside you will know something is missing.  You will feel the void and you will try to fill it with things you believe will make you joyful and happy, and they may, for a short period of time.  But there will come a time when that hole you are continually trying to fill will no longer hold the things you are trying to put into it.  It will eventually become bottomless and no matter how hard you try to fill it, it will only end up sucking you into it until you are so far down you cannot see the light of day.  This is when, if you don’t get out, you could very easily turn to other means and ways of trying to feel good only to be led down a path of destruction.  It is a vicious cycle of unhappiness, sorrow, pain and depression. 

44When you live your life from within, where LIFE exists; when you come to the realization that LIFE IS INSIDE YOU, there will never be anything missing. There will no longer be a void and there will no longer be any holes to fill.  The feelings of unhappiness, sorrow, pain and depression will slowly begin to fade as they are replaced with genuine feelings of joy, happiness, appreciation, abundance, and love. Life will take a turn.  It may be a dramatic turn or it may be a gradual turn, but none the less it will be a turn that points you in the direction you have always wanted to go.

Living life from the inside means living in the moment.  It means putting the past to rest and never worrying about the future.  It means creating every day how you want it to be just by living, breathing and being the present moment. There is no pain or suffering because Life knows nothing but joy and love.  One of the easiest ways to connect to Life, is to just let go of everything that ails you. Turn your life over to LIFE (Universe, God, Source, Self, etc.) and relax in the KNOWING that LIFE will never work against you if you just give it a chance!

Love & Light,

Cindy Ortiz

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It Is Not Because of You

47What another person says, does, thinks or feels is not because of you.  You may think it is, but it is far from it.  It is because of them; of who they are.  A person’s reaction or response to any one thing is their own. It comes from a place that only they know and understand.  This does not make it wrong or right, it just makes it what it is and who they are.

We all live in the same world and yet our worlds are totally different.  This is because we live through our own individual minds.  Yes, we may agree on certain things, but never will any two “agreements” be identical.  How you feel about something comes from your own unique set of emotions, thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions.  We could both be looking at a beautiful sunset but the beauty we see is going to be different because we are different.  We may agree that it is beautiful but what beauty is to you will never be the same of what beauty is to me.

59It does not matter how we are treated by another human being, it is always about the person it is coming from.  This falls true in experiences that we consider to be positive as well.  As an example, if someone lives a joyous and happy life, they are going to treat you very well.  If a person lives a miserable and unhappy life, they are not going to treat you very well.  You cannot be happy and mean or unhappy and kind at the same time, it just is not possible.  All that we have lived is inside of us and so our responses to others or to the world in general will be based off of what lies within.

So the next time someone treats you in a way that you do not appreciate, understand or agree with, remind yourself that it has absolutely nothing to do with you!  Give yourself a break and just let it go.  You are perfect exactly as you are!

Love & Light,

Cindy Ortiz

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