The World is Your Oyster

500We are always going to be faced with unwanted things because it is the natural cycle of life. To know darkness you have to know light. To know what you want you have to know what you don’t want. However, the degree, intensity, and time you experience what you don’t want is totally up to you. You can allow it to change your life for the worse or you can allow it to open positive possibilities.

The last thing you want to do is to fight against the unwanted. And yes, sometimes it is easier said than done but what you have to ask yourself, even in the midst of chaos, is how you want to feel. Do you want this thing that is causing you to feel less than joyful and happy, perhaps even stressed, worried, or full of fear, have control of you? Do you want this thing to be the decision maker in how your life is going to turn out? No, of course you don’t. So what are you going to do about it? You are going to embrace it for what it is, let go of your attachment to what was, do what you have to do, and keep moving forward with a positive and optimistic attitude. The world is your oyster if you allow it to be.

Love & Light


People Come, People Go

101I have often wondered why so many people come and go in our lives.  Or why we leave the lives of certain people. I understand that certain circumstances warrant the “loss” such as unhealthy relationships, career choices, moving, death, etc., but there is also another reason.  A reason that many people may not be aware of.

It was just recently I became aware, on a much deeper level of understanding, why the people in our lives change so much or don’t.  You see, when we make a decision to change ourselves or change parts of our lives, our vibration changes.  We are no longer living within the same vibrational frequency as we were before the changes were made.  It is this vibrational change that “controls” who and/or what shows up in our life experience. 

359Let’s say for example you live an unhappy life.  Your thoughts are mostly negative and nothing ever seems to go your way.  Then one day you realize enough is enough ~ you are done with the unhappiness so you make the decision to only be, speak and do happy and positive things.  Once you put your new outlook into play, it will only be within a matter of days you begin to feel the change in your vibration.  You will begin to feel better about yourself and about your life.  If you stick with your decision to be happy and stay positive, the people in your life will start to change as well.  You will start attracting those who are happy and positive along with “detracting” those who are not.  This does not make those who are not happy and positive “bad” people, it just makes them on a different vibrational frequency than where you now are.

21It is no different when you keep attracting the type of people you don’t want in your life.  Somewhere in your vibration you are either focusing too much on what you don’t want (instead of what you do want) or you have a negative underlying belief about yourself that will keep you in the same cycle of unwanted attractions.  Being observant of who and what comes into your life is a good indication of where your vibration is ~ it will either be positive or negative.


For the sake of a happy, joyful, and abundant life, it is wise to vibrate at a healthy frequency.  What you send out, you will most definitely get back.  People come and people go, so rely whole heartedly on yourself for your own happiness!

If true and lasting happiness is what you seek, seek first from within.  Live, breathe and be your Inner Life.  Quiet your mind, focus solely on the present moment and allow the power of your Inner Life guide you to where you want to be ….

Love & Light,


Cynthia K Ortiz, Inner Life Guidance Coach

Admit the Truth for Your Own Happiness

355When you live unhappy more so than happy, there may come a time when the only thing left to do will be to sit down, quiet your mind, and admit the truth for your own happiness. It does not matter what is creating your unhappiness, admitting the truth will set you free because it stops the internal fight and struggle.  You are no longer fighting against what you already know. You are not running or hiding from it.  Once the fight stops, the thing that is creating your unhappiness loses its power over you!  You are now in control!

When you fight against the things you are doing or not doing that cause your unhappiness, you become out of tune with your Inner Life.  And when this happens, life is not so joyful and happy. But once you have admitted your truth, which stops the fight, the solutions will automatically surface through your Inner Life.  You will have the answers and the power to everything you want or need and you will be more in tune with your Inner Life again.

103Admitting the truth may cause some emotional pain but there will also be relief. You will feel and be free.  You do not have to change anything in your life in order to break free, you just have to admit the truth. You will then be free to move forward again and do what is needed and wanted to create your life the way you truly want it to be.

I have heard more often than not, that fear is the reason for not admitting and facing the truth.  No one wants to admit a truth that may cause emotional pain. However, you are already hurting yourself by not breaking free from your unhappiness. There is nothing on the other side to fear.  Yes, there may be some challenges along the way but as long as you stay true to yourself first, your life will unfold smoothly and easily.

30Give yourself what you deserve.  Love yourself enough to allow what life has to offer you. Do not be afraid.  Breaking free from any negative element will only bring you happiness!!!

If true and lasting happiness is what you seek, seek first from within.  Live, breathe and be your Inner Life.  Quiet your mind, focus solely on the present moment, and allow the power of your Inner Life guide you to where you want to be……

Love & Light,

Cynthia K Ortiz, Inner Life Guidance Coach