How Bad Do You Want It?

728.jpgHow bad do you want to be happy ~ to live in happiness instead of pain?  How bad do you just want to break open and free yourself from all the things you know in your heart are causing you unhappiness, sadness, grief, depression or pain?  When is enough going to be enough ~ what is it going to take for you to wake up and see what’s happening?  To see how much time you are wasting ~ precious time ~ time you will never ever be able to get back.  Do you have to completely lose yourself before you realize, before you see?

Do you truly and deeply, more so than anything else in this world want to feel good and be truly happy no matter what?  Are you willing to do whatever it takes to get to where you want to be?  Are you willing to turn and walk away ~ to make any and all changes necessary?  To walk away from the things that only you know are holding you back.  To walk away from the things you know are not a part of who you truly are.  The things that cause you the most grief.  Are you willing to let them go for your own freedom and peace of mind?  Are you willing to let go of the people in your life who enable negative behaviors, show more support for who you are not, then who you are.  The people who you may care about but just don’t see in your future.  The people who remain stagnant with no dreams of their own ~ who live unhealthy and unhappy lives.

696Are you 100% willing to put yourself first, to love yourself so much that you are willing to pay the price for your freedom.  The price of stepping into the unknown with faith and courage.  The price of being willing, no matter what, to face your fear and pain head on ~ to no longer be afraid but instead to love every moment of this time, of this change.  To embrace it, to appreciate it, to accept it and then to let it go?  Nothing will change if you don’t move through it.  Nothing will change if you don’t let it go.  It is just a feeling ~ a feeling that can no longer hurt you or make you unhappy because you are not willing to let it.

375Are you ready for the most incredible journey of your lifetime?  Then I say this to you ~ stop lying to yourself and everyone else!  Stop walking around waiting for things to change!  Stop existing and start living!  Stop relying so heavily on your outer life and rely solely on your Inner Life ~ on the greater and most powerful part of all that you are, all that you’ve been, and all that you will ever be. Stop being unhappy and do whatever it takes to get to where you want to be!  Happiness is the key to all that life has to offer – guaranteed!

If true and lasting happiness is what you seek, seek first from within.  Live, breathe and be your Inner Life.  Quiet your mind, focus solely on the present moment and allow the power of your Inner Life guide you to where you want to be ….

Love & Light,

Cindy

 

People Come, People Go

101I have often wondered why so many people come and go in our lives.  Or why we leave the lives of certain people. I understand that certain circumstances warrant the “loss” such as unhealthy relationships, career choices, moving, death, etc., but there is also another reason.  A reason that many people may not be aware of.

It was just recently I became aware, on a much deeper level of understanding, why the people in our lives change so much or don’t.  You see, when we make a decision to change ourselves or change parts of our lives, our vibration changes.  We are no longer living within the same vibrational frequency as we were before the changes were made.  It is this vibrational change that “controls” who and/or what shows up in our life experience. 


359Let’s say for example you live an unhappy life.  Your thoughts are mostly negative and nothing ever seems to go your way.  Then one day you realize enough is enough ~ you are done with the unhappiness so you make the decision to only be, speak and do happy and positive things.  Once you put your new outlook into play, it will only be within a matter of days you begin to feel the change in your vibration.  You will begin to feel better about yourself and about your life.  If you stick with your decision to be happy and stay positive, the people in your life will start to change as well.  You will start attracting those who are happy and positive along with “detracting” those who are not.  This does not make those who are not happy and positive “bad” people, it just makes them on a different vibrational frequency than where you now are.


21It is no different when you keep attracting the type of people you don’t want in your life.  Somewhere in your vibration you are either focusing too much on what you don’t want (instead of what you do want) or you have a negative underlying belief about yourself that will keep you in the same cycle of unwanted attractions.  Being observant of who and what comes into your life is a good indication of where your vibration is ~ it will either be positive or negative.

 

For the sake of a happy, joyful, and abundant life, it is wise to vibrate at a healthy frequency.  What you send out, you will most definitely get back.  People come and people go, so rely whole heartedly on yourself for your own happiness!

If true and lasting happiness is what you seek, seek first from within.  Live, breathe and be your Inner Life.  Quiet your mind, focus solely on the present moment and allow the power of your Inner Life guide you to where you want to be ….

Love & Light,

 

Cynthia K Ortiz, Inner Life Guidance Coach

Knowing Your Worth – Moving On

605When you know your worth, and you are worthy, the hurtful words and actions of others go through you instead of knocking you down.  For me, they filter through my Inner Life and become purified into love.  Love toward the one who is still suffering. 

The one’s who suffer are the ones who hurt us the most.  They say they love us and yet at the same time they aim their spears at us.  Spears filled with THEIR inner pain masked as hurtful words and actions.  When the pain of the past begins to stir within them it is easier to avoid what they don’t want to feel so they search for an outlet ~ another way around the pain instead of just facing the truth ~ their truth. 

If the suffering is understood on a higher level, knowing someone’s hurtful ways come from a very deep seeded pain within THEM, we can be patient because we understand.  We can try to help and guide this person away from what doesn’t matter toward what really does matter.  However, there comes a point when enough is enough.  When you have tried to be there, to reach out, to love, to be honest and forgiving but to no avail.  You are worthy of more, of better, of your true dreams and desires.

106Ending this type of relationship does not make you the bad guy.  It makes you the guy who cares enough about yourself and your happiness, as you should, to let go and move on.  It makes you the guy who now chooses to live through your Inner Life, through love for yourself, more so than through obligation or guilt. This doesn’t mean you can’t care about their well-being, because you can.

It is not your job or duty to make others “better”.  It is up to them to change, but first they have to want to change, and they have to do it on their own.   Putting your worth first and foremost will allow you to move on free of guilt and pain. 

If true and lasting happiness is what you seek, seek first from within.  Live, breathe and be your Inner Life.  Quiet your mind, focus solely on the present moment and allow the power of your Inner Life guide you to where you want to be ….

Love & Light,

 

Cynthia K Ortiz, Inner Life Guidance Coach