• Depression,  General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction

    Happiness or Unhappiness – It’s YOUR Choice

    A happy life starts with you, just as an unhappy life starts with you ~ no one else, just you.  You are the one who controls how you feel about anything and everything, which in turn controls how life is going to feel to you.  Let’s say you are having a bad day.  From the moment your feet hit the floor nothing seems to go the way you want it to.  You are faced with one unwanted situation after another and before you know it you are caught up in a tunnel of frustration, irritation, stress, anxiety, negativity and maybe even anger.  If you keep living and re-living where you…

  • General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction,  Relationships

    Letting Go of Emotional Wounds

    There are no emotional wounds that are unable to be healed.  If your wounds are not healed or are not healing as fast as you would like, it is through no fault but of your own.  We are the ones who are in control of our healing.  We are the ones who control how our wounds affects us.  And if you want to take it one step further, we are the ones who turn something into a wound.  Yes, we all have them, and there may be more to come, but it is up to us as to how they play out in our lives.  We can allow them to…

  • Appreciation,  General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction,  Relationships

    The Twists and Turns of Trust

    What is it about trust that gets us so tied up in knots?  I know I have had my share of trust issues, a few of which I still need to lay to rest.  However, life has become easier and more peaceful since I came to the realization of what trust issues really are and where they come from.  In simple terms, trust issues are evil monsters that control us because we allow them to.  We allow them to run amuck 24/7 not giving ourselves a fighting chance to let go and move on.  They are the little mind monsters that remind you over and over again how someone hurt…

  • General,  Happiness

    Give Yourself A Second Chance

    There may come a time in your life when you need a second chance; perhaps even more than once.  Through whatever means this desire has come into your life, start from where you are.  There is no need to go back and rehash what was done right or wrong or how you ended up where you are.  There is also no need to start worrying about the future, as to whether or not things will work out or get better.  Just start by taking the first step in the direction that will bring you peace, well-being and happiness. Second chances are not about righting your wrongs or proving your worth. …

  • General,  Happiness,  Relationships

    Love Is To the Soul…

    Love is to the soul like water is to a flower.  Some say the soul is the same as the inner-being (Inner Life) and some say they are different.  I believe they are the same.  The soul, inner-being, inner-child, inner-self, Inner Life, spirit, etc. is the eternal greater part of who we are.  I believe that if we are in tune with, in touch with, or even aware of the greater part of who we really are, a true and deep love with another is always possible.  It is when we attach our love to the outside world, to our outer life, that it is lost.  When you love from…

  • Happiness

    Spring Clean Your Life

    When was the last time you did some spring cleaning? And I am not talking about your house.  I am talking about spring cleaning your life. There is certainly nothing wrong with cleaning your life up, getting rid of the cobwebs, or freshening up the areas that need re-freshening.  Take a little extra time to decide on what or who is enhancing your life and let go of what or who isn’t. Spring cleaning at any time of the year is a very healthy process of staying in tune with your Inner Life. It keeps you in check with the things that bring you joy and happiness and the things…

  • Happiness

    The World is Your Oyster

    We are always going to be faced with unwanted things because it is the natural cycle of life. To know darkness you have to know light. To know what you want you have to know what you don’t want. However, the degree, intensity, and time you experience what you don’t want is totally up to you. You can allow it to change your life for the worse or you can allow it to open positive possibilities. The last thing you want to do is to fight against the unwanted. And yes, sometimes it is easier said than done but what you have to ask yourself, even in the midst of…

  • General,  Happiness

    Mistakes Will Be Made

    Mistakes will be made.  Feeling bad about your mistakes will quickly suck the joy and happiness right out of you if YOU allow them to.  You can still be happy NOW no matter what mistakes were made.  Accept them, take responsibility for them, learn from them, make them right if possible, and move on.  Don’t allow them to consume who you are.  You are not your mistakes, but you are human. Don’t let them take away your happiness, you are worth more than a mistake. Love & Light, Cindy Related articles The Pursuit of Happiness (meandtheboss.com) What Has Waiting Done For You (leaplikeafrog.com) Time Cannot Erase (anewperspectiveperhaps.wordpress.com) Words for the Week (ohchanti.wordpress.com) Happiness is…

  • Happiness

    A Happy Life

    A happy life starts with you, just as an unhappy life starts with you ~ no one else, just you.  You are the one who controls how you feel about anything and everything, which in turn controls how life is going to feel to you. You always have a choice.  You can choose to be happy no matter what, or you can choose to be unhappy and miserable. Which is it going to be?  Love & Light, Cindy Related articles Understanding Your Inner & Outer Lives (innerlifejourney.com) Its Own Reward (meandtheboss.com) Refreshed (meandtheboss.com) “Life is too short to give another minute to anyone that doesn’t make you happy.” (gaytwogether.typepad.com) 10…

  • Depression,  General,  Happiness,  Law of Attraction,  Relationships

    Be Consumed By Your Inner Life

    One of the biggest set backs we can give ourselves is allowing our outer life control our Inner Life.  Your Inner Life is the core of who you really are.  It is where nothing can break you and all that matters can be found.  It is where you are protected, safe, loved and one with Source. When we are faced with a broken relationship, financial or business challenges, the death of a loved one, disease, etc. we have a tendency to fall into its evil trap of worry, stress, anxiety, pain and depression.  We allow ourselves to be consumed and sucked up in what is happening to us instead of…