The World is Your Oyster

500We are always going to be faced with unwanted things because it is the natural cycle of life. To know darkness you have to know light. To know what you want you have to know what you don’t want. However, the degree, intensity, and time you experience what you don’t want is totally up to you. You can allow it to change your life for the worse or you can allow it to open positive possibilities.

The last thing you want to do is to fight against the unwanted. And yes, sometimes it is easier said than done but what you have to ask yourself, even in the midst of chaos, is how you want to feel. Do you want this thing that is causing you to feel less than joyful and happy, perhaps even stressed, worried, or full of fear, have control of you? Do you want this thing to be the decision maker in how your life is going to turn out? No, of course you don’t. So what are you going to do about it? You are going to embrace it for what it is, let go of your attachment to what was, do what you have to do, and keep moving forward with a positive and optimistic attitude. The world is your oyster if you allow it to be.

Love & Light

Cindy

Mistakes Will Be Made

97Mistakes will be made.  Feeling bad about your mistakes will quickly suck the joy and happiness right out of you if YOU allow them to.  You can still be happy NOW no matter what mistakes were made.  Accept them, take responsibility for them, learn from them, make them right if possible, and move on.  Don’t allow them to consume who you are.  You are not your mistakes, but you are human. Don’t let them take away your happiness, you are worth more than a mistake.

Love & Light,

Cindy

A Happy Life

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A happy life starts with you, just as an unhappy life starts with you ~ no one else, just you.  You are the one who controls how you feel about anything and everything, which in turn controls how life is going to feel to you. You always have a choice.  You can choose to be happy no matter what, or you can choose to be unhappy and miserable. Which is it going to be? 

Love & Light,

Cindy