I have often wondered why so many people come and go in our lives. Or why we leave the lives of certain people. I understand that certain circumstances warrant the “loss” such as unhealthy relationships, career choices, moving, death, etc., but there is also another reason. A reason that many people may not be aware of.
It was just recently I became aware, on a much deeper level of understanding, why the people in our lives change so much or don’t. You see, when we make a decision to change ourselves or change parts of our lives, our vibration changes. We are no longer living within the same vibrational frequency as we were before the changes were made. It is this vibrational change that “controls” who and/or what shows up in our life experience.
Let’s say for example you live an unhappy life. Your thoughts are mostly negative and nothing ever seems to go your way. Then one day you realize enough is enough ~ you are done with the unhappiness so you make the decision to only be, speak and do happy and positive things. Once you put your new outlook into play, it will only be within a matter of days you begin to feel the change in your vibration. You will begin to feel better about yourself and about your life. If you stick with your decision to be happy and stay positive, the people in your life will start to change as well. You will start attracting those who are happy and positive along with “detracting” those who are not. This does not make those who are not happy and positive “bad” people, it just makes them on a different vibrational frequency than where you now are.
It is no different when you keep attracting the type of people you don’t want in your life. Somewhere in your vibration you are either focusing too much on what you don’t want (instead of what you do want) or you have a negative underlying belief about yourself that will keep you in the same cycle of unwanted attractions. Being observant of who and what comes into your life is a good indication of where your vibration is ~ it will either be positive or negative.
For the sake of a happy, joyful, and abundant life, it is wise to vibrate at a healthy frequency. What you send out, you will most definitely get back. People come and people go, so rely whole heartedly on yourself for your own happiness!
If true and lasting happiness is what you seek, seek first from within. Live, breathe and be your Inner Life. Quiet your mind, focus solely on the present moment and allow the power of your Inner Life guide you to where you want to be ….
Love & Light,
Cynthia K Ortiz, Inner Life Guidance Coach