Relationships are about positive growth. Not just within ourselves but within the other person as well. It is natural for change to occur whether we want it to or not. As we grow, make new or different choices, implement change within ourselves, take a different path, or stay idle where we are, there will be an effect on our relationships, all of them. If these changes and choices cannot be embraced by the support and love of those in your life, your relationships may come to a dead-end. A dead-end relationship is one that does not have the potential to move forward in a direction that you so desire.
The great spiritual teachers of our time say to enjoy every moment with those who come into our lives. This doesn’t mean those moments have to stretch into years or a lifetime. It means enjoying one another for who they are for whatever period of time you so choose. I do believe we have the ability to learn and grow from any and all relationship experiences, but why stay in one that is at a dead-end. And yet so many people do. Isn’t your life and happiness more important than a dead-end?
If true and lasting happiness is what you seek, seek first from within. Live, breathe and be your Inner Life. Quiet your mind, focus solely on the present moment, and allow the power of your Inner Life guide you to where you want to be……
Love & Light,
Cynthia K Ortiz, Inner Life Guidance Coach